sad.... really tio scam... called to steps office.. although tat guy been ban but i cant take back my money.. T_T
Written on : 9:30 PM
Monday, February 22, 2010
Sick~Sick~Sick~Sick~Sick~Sick~Sick~Sick~
sick before new year Zzzz so no fun for new year...
Steps lvl 42 le.. and dam piss off just now tio scam just now by a 26yr old guy @#$&^&@%^ we suppose to trade de i give him 12 coupon (1200rcoins) then another 13 coupon he say bo receive..Zzz WTF!!! abt $15 leh！！ anw i report GM le.. hopefully can refund back... sad!!T_T
Written on : 2:50 PM
Sunday, February 14, 2010
hehe forgot to wish EVERYONE!!
新年快乐！
情人节快乐！
ok off to bed.. nite nite ZzzZzz
Written on : 2:24 AM
hehe my valentines presents didnt expect to receive de..
this from my imvu fren XD
this from my bf :)
this is the combination :P
busy day.. had 3 reunion lunch/dinner all steamboat -.-
tmr will be more busy.. busy busy busy busy.. till the 3rd day then FREE n EASY LOL :P
Written on : 12:44 AM
Thursday, February 11, 2010
Taeyang - Wedding Dress sorry if the translations are wrong..
I'm so sorry everything is over Guess this is really over now There's something I gotta say before I let you go Listen
When you have a fight with him Sometimes you cry And feel sad and blue I become hopeful My heart aches secretly Then just a hint of your smile I feel fine again To keep you from figuring out how I feel about you Coz then we would drift apart I hold my breath, bite my lips Oh, please leave him and come to me
Baby, please dont take his hand Coz you should be my lady I've been waiting for you for so long Please look at me now
When the music starts You will vow to spend The rest of your life with him How I prayed every night This day would never come
The wedding dress you're wearing It's not me (next to you) Oh, the wedding dress youre wearing, oh, no
You never knew how I felt about you And I hated you so Sometimes I wished you would be unhappy
Now I have no more tears left to cry When Im by myself I talk to you like you're here Ive felt so restless every night Maybe Ive known all along this would happen I close my eyes and dream an endless dream Please leave him and come to me
Baby, dont take his hand when he comes to you Coz you should be my lady I've been waiting for you for so long Look at me now
When the music starts You will vow to spend The rest of your life with him How I prayed every night This day would never come
The wedding dress you're wearing It's not me (next to you) Oh, the wedding dress youre wearing, oh, no
Please be happy with him So that I can forget you Please forget how miserable I looked It's going to be unbearably hard for me For a long while to come
No, oh
For such a long time I lived in an illusion like a fool She is still smiling So brightly at me
The wedding dress you're wearing It's not me (next to you) Oh, the wedding dress youre wearing, oh, no
Written on : 4:03 PM
Tuesday, February 9, 2010
copied this from HY blog... so touching... T_T
To those who are married, not married and soon to be married, I hope you will be touched with this story.
When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce.. I raised the topic calmly.
She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?
I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Dew. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.
She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.
The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew.
When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.
This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.
She requested that everyday for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning.. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.
I told Dew about my wife’s divorce conditions.. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully..
My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time.. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.
On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.
She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.
Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.
Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.
But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy.
I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore.
She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead.. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other any more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.
Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.
At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.
That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.
The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!
If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you.
If you do, you just might save a marriage.
Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.
Written on : 4:18 PM
Monday, February 8, 2010
update~
friday shopping @ bedok int
saturday shopping again @ TM
sunday shopping again @ TM
spend so much.. nearly $500 gone le T_T onli bought one necklaces for myself not bad la i like it alot :)
monday work
tue work
wed work
thurs half day work need to spring clean office -.-
work work work work and more work very busy this few.. need to rush alot cos... long holiday coming.. 11/2 - 21/2
shld be staying at home mostly ba.. siandie..
**wonder do you still visit my blog, no hear from you so long le.. missing you**
Written on : 12:42 PM
Monday, February 1, 2010
back to blog abit..
Friday mc no wk.. rot at home
Sat/Sun help fren at cheng san cc flea* market.. have fun but tired at the end of the day alot to pack.. body aching..
sad.... really tio scam... called to steps office.. although tat guy been ban but i cant take back my money.. T_T
Written on : 9:30 PM
Monday, February 22, 2010
Sick~Sick~Sick~Sick~Sick~Sick~Sick~Sick~
sick before new year Zzzz so no fun for new year...
Steps lvl 42 le.. and dam piss off just now tio scam just now by a 26yr old guy @#$&^&@%^ we suppose to trade de i give him 12 coupon (1200rcoins) then another 13 coupon he say bo receive..Zzz WTF!!! abt $15 leh！！ anw i report GM le.. hopefully can refund back... sad!!T_T
Written on : 2:50 PM
Sunday, February 14, 2010
hehe forgot to wish EVERYONE!!
新年快乐！
情人节快乐！
ok off to bed.. nite nite ZzzZzz
Written on : 2:24 AM
hehe my valentines presents didnt expect to receive de..
this from my imvu fren XD
this from my bf :)
this is the combination :P
busy day.. had 3 reunion lunch/dinner all steamboat -.-
tmr will be more busy.. busy busy busy busy.. till the 3rd day then FREE n EASY LOL :P
Written on : 12:44 AM
Thursday, February 11, 2010
Taeyang - Wedding Dress sorry if the translations are wrong..
I'm so sorry everything is over Guess this is really over now There's something I gotta say before I let you go Listen
When you have a fight with him Sometimes you cry And feel sad and blue I become hopeful My heart aches secretly Then just a hint of your smile I feel fine again To keep you from figuring out how I feel about you Coz then we would drift apart I hold my breath, bite my lips Oh, please leave him and come to me
Baby, please dont take his hand Coz you should be my lady I've been waiting for you for so long Please look at me now
When the music starts You will vow to spend The rest of your life with him How I prayed every night This day would never come
The wedding dress you're wearing It's not me (next to you) Oh, the wedding dress youre wearing, oh, no
You never knew how I felt about you And I hated you so Sometimes I wished you would be unhappy
Now I have no more tears left to cry When Im by myself I talk to you like you're here Ive felt so restless every night Maybe Ive known all along this would happen I close my eyes and dream an endless dream Please leave him and come to me
Baby, dont take his hand when he comes to you Coz you should be my lady I've been waiting for you for so long Look at me now
When the music starts You will vow to spend The rest of your life with him How I prayed every night This day would never come
The wedding dress you're wearing It's not me (next to you) Oh, the wedding dress youre wearing, oh, no
Please be happy with him So that I can forget you Please forget how miserable I looked It's going to be unbearably hard for me For a long while to come
No, oh
For such a long time I lived in an illusion like a fool She is still smiling So brightly at me
The wedding dress you're wearing It's not me (next to you) Oh, the wedding dress youre wearing, oh, no
Written on : 4:03 PM
Tuesday, February 9, 2010
copied this from HY blog... so touching... T_T
To those who are married, not married and soon to be married, I hope you will be touched with this story.
When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce.. I raised the topic calmly.
She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?
I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Dew. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.
She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.
The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew.
When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.
This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.
She requested that everyday for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning.. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.
I told Dew about my wife’s divorce conditions.. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully..
My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time.. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.
On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.
She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.
Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.
Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.
But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy.
I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore.
She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead.. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other any more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.
Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.
At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.
That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.
The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!
If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you.
If you do, you just might save a marriage.
Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.
Written on : 4:18 PM
Monday, February 8, 2010
update~
friday shopping @ bedok int
saturday shopping again @ TM
sunday shopping again @ TM
spend so much.. nearly $500 gone le T_T onli bought one necklaces for myself not bad la i like it alot :)
monday work
tue work
wed work
thurs half day work need to spring clean office -.-
work work work work and more work very busy this few.. need to rush alot cos... long holiday coming.. 11/2 - 21/2
shld be staying at home mostly ba.. siandie..
**wonder do you still visit my blog, no hear from you so long le.. missing you**
Written on : 12:42 PM
Monday, February 1, 2010
back to blog abit..
Friday mc no wk.. rot at home
Sat/Sun help fren at cheng san cc flea* market.. have fun but tired at the end of the day alot to pack.. body aching..
